Should I tell my bf that I have alexi?


Should I tell my bf that I have alexi?
I have alexitymia and my score is 130. In fact I don't feel like I have a problem with this. However nearly all people around me say I am too distant/emotionless and also some of them complain much about this.

I actually got better with emotions after I met with my current bf. I am in a 4 years loving relationship with him. At first even I was surprised when I started to feel and express more. But still he says he feels like he is the girl(more emotional/caring one) in the relationship. He even asked me "why do you never get angry with me or make a fuss about something? I am the one that always do that kind of things."

I don't want to make him confused anymore but I don't know what his reaction will be.
I guess it could not hurt if it is something that you now discover

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Alexithymia - emotional blindness - is a personal trait which affects roughly 10% of the population.

Alexithymia describes the difficulty of people to perceive and describe emotions of others and themselves. Most persons concerned are not aware about this deficit and usually they are just recognizing it in contact with others, especially close friends, within their family or their partner.

These pages should deliver additional information about Alexithymia and offer information for affected persons, relatives and generally interested people.